Gratitude and the Season of Waiting

Waiting can feel like a wilderness. The Israelites knew this well—forty long years of wandering in the desert, often grumbling instead of giving thanks. “How long will this wicked community grumble against me? I have heard the complaints of these grumbling Israelites” (Numbers 14:27 NIV). Their lack of gratitude turned what was meant to be a journey of promise into a season of despair. What could have been a training ground for trust became a cycle of doubt and complaint. Their story reminds us that the way we respond in seasons of delay has the power to shape not only our attitude but also our destiny. In our own lives, waiting often comes clothed in uncertainty. We wait for healing, for provision, for relationships to be restored, for prayers to be answered, for doors to open that still seem firmly shut. When we wait for Jesus’s help or for His promises to unfold, it is easy for a thankless heart to take root. Complaining feels natural when answers seem far away. But a spirit of ingratitude only lengthens the wilderness. It makes the path feel dry, heavy, and endless.

Gratitude, however, changes everything. “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (1 Thessalonians 5:18 NIV). When we fill our waiting with thanksgiving, hope begins to rise. Thankfulness does not deny the pain of delay, but it reframes waiting in light of God’s faithfulness. A grateful heart recalls His past mercies and says, “If He has carried me before, He will carry me again.” “Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits” (Psalm 103:2 KJV). Remembering fuels trust for the future. Suddenly, waiting no longer feels like abandonment but anticipation. Gratitude transforms the barren desert into holy ground, where our faith deepens instead of withers.

The truth is, we already hold a fulfilled promise even in the midst of what we are still longing for. Jesus has given us the gift of the Holy Spirit—His abiding presence within us. “And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Helper, to be with you forever” (John 14:16 ESV). This is no small thing; it is the guarantee of His nearness and the down payment of all that is yet to come. Giving thanks for the Spirit anchors us in the reality of Christ’s victory at the cross. “Thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ” (1 Corinthians 15:57 NIV). Gratitude keeps us tethered to that finished work. When we remember Calvary, we are reminded that the greatest promises have already been secured: reconciliation with God, forgiveness of sins, and eternal life. Every other promise, though we wait to see it fully, is safe in His hands.

This posture of thankfulness does not just strengthen us personally; it stirs us outwardly. Gratitude fuels zeal to share Jesus with others, even while we wait for our own breakthroughs. “Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven” (Matthew 5:16). When we tell the story of God’s goodness—what He has already done in us—we point others toward the hope that is also available to them. In this way, waiting becomes missional. Gratitude refuses to let delay silence our witness.

As we anticipate the arrival or help of Jesus in whatever form it may take, thanksgiving steadies us. It keeps our eyes fixed on His promises rather than our discomfort. “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles” (Isaiah 40:31). A thankful heart makes the waiting worth it. It transforms delay into devotion, longing into worship, and patience into a living testimony of faith.

So, in every season of waiting, whisper thanks. Thank Him for what He has done, what He is doing, and what He will yet do. “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!” (Philippians 4:4). Even before the breakthrough, even before the answer arrives, choose to give thanks.

Gratitude does not just shorten the wilderness; it sanctifies it. It turns what feels like wasted time into sacred time. Thanksgiving infuses the season of delay with meaning, shaping us to look more like Christ. And as our hearts overflow with thanks, we find that waiting is no longer a barren place—it is a place of worship, trust, and transformation. Gratitude ignites us to bring others to Jesus, reminding the world that even in the wilderness, God is good, and His promises are sure.

Rwanda National Bishop

Bishop Redias Nkundabera

Bishop Redias Nkundabera serves as the Church of God of Prophecy national bishop for Rwanda. He has a heart for service and a strong foundation in theological education. A graduate of Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary with a Master of Arts in Global Leadership, his commitment to ministry extends beyond the pulpit through his active involvement in the Church’s orphanage outreach in Rwanda. He and his wife Therese are the happy parents of three children.